When where you stay is more important than who you are

To an extent in other states where you stay is not a big deal in itself , although it may be a plus, at least people will still wanna get to know you.

Here, where you stay determines your level of wealth to some dumb people. As a man, if you don't stay in Maitama, Asokoro, Wuse2, Gwarinpa, etc it’s almost as if you're on your own. Girls will assume you aint rich enough and will rather not famz especially if they are not mobile (do not have a car).

As a lady if you stay in places like Kubwa, Bwari, Dutse, Lugbe etc, just forget it cos even me, I won’t come and visit you, the only people that could try are maybe friends who live around you. It’s even worse when you live in Nyanya and Mararaba because the traffic alone is enough to scare you away sef.

In Abuja where you stay determines the kind of friends you're gonna have and your lifestyle. Women want to gist with their friends and with all pride say "my bf stays in a 3 bedroom service apartment in asokoro" or "that guy I just met, stays in Maitama, in Ministers hill". Some even have to lie to meet up, they don't mind staying in gate man house in Wuse2 just for bragging rights. Abuja girls know how it is when u ask a guy where he stays and he says "Nyanya" in your mind you'll just be like "don't even invite me because I won’t even come" (Except maybe he's  sharing money).

Because people place where you stay above who you are, a lot of them (especially the women) lose out on really good people.