#TBT Abuja Post: Dear Abuja Babes, 10 Ways on How to Avoid being called an Ash...

Ladies, these days’ men do not take you guys seriously because a lot of you women do some really crazy stuff to these men. Even the ones in relationships behave like they're single sometimes and so these men are quick to judge and call them Abuja babes (Ash...)

I'm going to give you a list of how to avoid being mistaken for an Ash.. and if you're one then this may help you better hide it.  (more after the cut)

1. Biko dress decently, nothing says ash...like dressing with boobs showing and very mini dresses, that shit is old.

2. Reduce the makeup, if you've noticed most of these runz girls look the same like they all went to the same makeup school or something. Let your makeup be as natural as possible.

3. Don't bleach. Once you bleach, forgerrit.

4. Don’t be sneaky, try to be straight forward, if you're not ready for a relationship, tell the guy, you just want to have fun. If you want money tell them its only money you want and don't go around using heads here and there.

5. Have a job. If u no get job and u living by yourself and you have a car, of course he will think you're an ash..

6. Don’t smoke in public. Whatever you're smoking is your choice but please keep it indoors.

7. Don't use some rainbow like attachments or weaves, its trashy af and should be done in moderation or not at all.

8. Don't go clubbing every weekend madam, it’s irresponsible.

9. If you have a boyfriend, tell him what you're doing and where you're going if you can’t do this, then lie properly.

10. Stay away from married men!