I know most men will agree that so
many women claim to be “good women”. The reality is, only a handful truly fit
the mold of being the woman a man truly needs and desires. There are several
things that can be pointed out as to why they are not ready and why they
continuously find themselves single. So here are the Top 12 Reasons “Good
Women” Are Single.
1. Because You Act
Like A B**CH!!! Have A Bad Attitude!
You may not like to hear that, but
this issue is very real for some women. I’m not trying to be disrespectful
in any way, but I want to make my point very clear. You have so many women that
walk around with a nasty, stuck up attitude and they have the audacity to
wonder why they struggle with finding the right man. Some of them will attempt
to cover it up by proclaiming to be a “diva”, too “classy”, or that they are
just speaking their mind. In reality you just have a bad attitude. Some people
might say, well I see plenty of women like that married or in relationships.
Don’t be fooled, she wasn’t completely showing that side in the beginning, why?
Because she was being deceptive with hiding it. Either way, being a negative
person isn’t going to help you find love. Most of the men may still go after
you for sex, but if you learn to fix that attitude then you will start to
attract the right kind of man in your life. (more after the cut)
2. You Blame Men For Everything
That is why some of you are still
single. You refuse to make yourself accountable for your actions. Everything is
a man’s fault, and according to you, once they “act right” then you will have
no problem falling in line. First off, I agree that men have contributed so
much to the issues in relationships and women in general. We as men do have a
responsibility to step up and do better. The thing is, if you aren’t willing to
“step up” as well, then we will continue to have an issue, and you will
continue to find yourself by yourself. At the end of the day, you control how
you handle things. If you are not prepared to look in the mirror then you will
never realize the flaws you have and that need improvement. So next time you
want to put it all on men, check yourself, and accept that you have a choice to
do better and truly be one of the “good women” out there.
3. You Think Your Looks Will Carry
You Through Life
Ok so you’re beautiful and have a
nice body, great! Problem is, if a man talks to you and finds out that there is
nothing else to you then why would he bother wanting to make you his woman. He
will still want sex (sex is always an option for men) but that’s it. Men may be
more superficial than women, but most of us still want a woman who has some
kind of personality. Make yourself a more well-rounded fun individual and more
men will want to make you their own.
4. You Are A Gold Digger
Ok maybe you aren’t exactly on that
level, but you have made how much he makes your top priority. You are so caught
up in dollar signs that you overlook the things that are truly important to
having and maintaining a relationship. Realize that most men are not rich, so
right there you immediately make it harder for yourself to find the right guy.
Even if a guy has money, if he sees that’s what you are mainly about he won’t
take you seriously. I’m not saying date broke men, but I am saying that money
should not be your main motivator. Have better priorities and you will find
yourself in better relationships.
5. You Don’t Keep Yourself Up
Not that you have to get your nails
and hair done every 2 weeks (though some of us do like that) but you can’t
always look raggedy either. I mean damn, some of you ladies just put no real
effort into how you look. Not everyone has the same style, but good hygiene and
health should be a goal for all. Most of us want our woman to look good. As I
stated earlier we men are a bit more superficial than women, so to grab and
keep our attention you need to be mindful of how you present yourself. You know
where you can improve your look, so get started on it if you want to increase
your chances of going from being one of the single “good women” to one of the
taken “good women”.
6. Sex Has Been Your Downfall!
I personally believe it is best to
wait, but the reality is that most of us have or will engage in sex before we
are married. As a woman if you chose to do that, then understand that your
“skills” or lack thereof will impact a man’s willingness to make you his woman.
Unfortunately a lot of women think they are good but really the experience was
nothing to talk about. Women are quick to talk about a man’s performance while
neglecting the fact that they could use a lot of improvement as well. It
doesn’t take as much to please most men sexually, so be more open to ways you
can improve if you choose to take that route (best to just wait).
PART 2 NEXT WEEK
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