Date ke?

We all know that there are guidelines on going on a date and also dating mannerisms and these things determine first impressions and help in getting to better know each other, but in Abuja which date?   I don't think the guys know what that means because for here first date fit be for club and of course after club his house and his bed then the next day, he won't take your calls again. Here people are friends for only one day and e dey happen on a steady.

Here there are no dates, or am I wrong? As a woman in Abuja when you first met that guy did he take you to some nice restaurant for lunch so u guys could talk? did he take you to Trakadero to bowl and have fun while you discuss after over drinks or Chinese?  I think I know the answer already.

Guys have u ever asked a girl on a first date that did not involve going to your house and ending up in your room? or going to her house and she begging you not to rape her and having to beg her way out of your arms in her own house again o?

Mehn na so we see am, use your head people, use your head.