1. You’re too soft
Yeah you have a good job, yeah
you’re a good-looking guy, and yeah you open doors and all that sweet stuff.
That’s great, and I applaud you for all those things. But at the end of the
day, no woman wants a punk, and if you have not learned to balance cherishing
your woman as well as putting her in check when she disrespects you, then you will
continue to be a lonely punk…I’m just trying to help.
2. You lack ambition
So men seem to think that because
they are the good guys, this means that mediocrity in other aspects of their
lives should be accepted. Don’t get me wrong, some women have ridiculous (at
least in my eyes) expectations, but some of you “good men” don’t expect enough
out of yourselves. It doesn’t matter what your line of work is, show the drive
to do better and be better and you will quickly attract more women. (more after the cut)
3. You’re easily intimidated
Just because she has a lot going on
for herself and portrays the “independent woman syndrome” (I will save the
elaboration for another post) does not mean you need to feel insecure and start
trying to prove yourself in ways that end up coming off as lame and annoying.
Also, a lot of “good men” feel challenged by a woman who can do for herself and
they back away at any sight of assertiveness on her end. MAN UP! If you know
you’re a good man then just be you and she will figure it out. Assert yourself
and watch how well that works.
4. You lack confidence
This goes with #3. A lot of guys
that are “good men” do not have the confidence it takes to keep a woman. Women
love confidence, and if you don’t have it then don’t expect to have her. That
confidence actually plays into #1 & #2 on this list as well. You can’t
blame women for not believing in you when you can’t believe in yourself. Get it
together man!
5. You have no personality:
Your good job can buy you a lot of
things, but it can’t buy you a good relationship. You will have some women who
can tolerate you, but you won’t be able to keep her if you have not developed
skills like: good conversation, making
her laugh, and (not that I’m promoting this but…) good sex. Your nice guy, good
job, blah blah blah can only take you so far. Become more well-rounded and you
will become more desirable and be able to keep the women that your money may
attract.
6. You’re just not that attractive
I am not trying to be mean, but
let’s be honest. Many “good guys” just aren’t always the best looking. There is
hope though. If you can conquer the other 5 things on this list, and do a good
job a grooming yourself, getting in shape, and having some style, you will
easily become so much more attractive. Women are turned on by many non-physical
attributes so take advantage of what you can control and you will no longer
have to deal with this issue.
PART 2 NEXT WEEK
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