Why I hate Cohabiting in Abuja

Relationships are a lot of work, you have to find the right person who meets the standards in your head, you get to know them better, you learn to control your feelings around that person to make them as comfortable as possible, having that purge like feeling for no reason, they will say its butterflies because of love. A good relationship is more than something we want—it's something we need to be our happiest, healthiest, most productive selves. You remember the last time your boo was mad at you for something that was your fault? How did you feel? Relationships come with a lot of emotional baggage with a whirlwind of emotions that we sef no understand. 

Anyway, Lots of people cohabit like live together when they are not married and I would say it’s done for some reasons and thus my opinion:

1. Due to rent/accommodation issues, a guy can ask his girlfriend to stay with him or maybe he's not even her bf but he’s kind enough to let her stay either permanently or for a short time and during this time she will be performing wife duties and he assumes the free roof over her head covers any other duties that's expected of him.

2.  Abortion rate = 80%. Just another reason why it can never come out right. Because the feel of a married couple is already there, they will have sex anyhow without protection so abortion dey always follow for the matter.

3. It will never lead to marriage.  90% of the time it’s the girl staying with the man and he uses it to his own advantage and whenever it’s the man staying with the man, it’s termed a shame and society will refer to the woman as an ashewo. However it may be, if the girl thinks it will lead to marriage, she's on clouds because she go old dey wait because as a result of see finish, the man won't value her at all. The man will end up marrying a fresh babe and blame it the woman's abortion as the reason for him not wanting her (Men that do this are she goats)

4. Abuse Level 300. It is always associated with abuse, physical, emotional, mental, name it. The story line is always the same.

5. It will never end well. When last did you see bf and gf living together that eventually got married? Me too. And the women will never learn.

Enjoy your weekend.