GUY: "Hi you're cute. let me ruin your life"

Abuja women want good, RICH men who will be faithful (Jesus), spoil them, change their status on Facebook to Married and feature the wedding on Bella Naija. The ones that are married want their husband to be faithful regardless and take care of their family. 

Some marriages here are like bad relationships, where the men do whatever they like and get away with it most times because in Naija divorce na long thing, so she will stay no matter what. That's why you see women stay in Abuja marriages because of status and money but not because they are happy.

The single women have it worse because the "single" men in Abuja are nothing close to what they want, so if you are a single woman this post, read am well.

Women, the truth is most Abuja Men are out to sleep with you, turn you into a junkie, some won't want to take care of you so those types will turn you into an Ash.. (because these women will have to sleep with other men that are ready to take care of them), get you pregs, tell you to abort, ruin your life and then leave like : "Bitch bye, I'm on to the next girl dumb enough to think I'm legit". Some will come as nice people, even promise you heaven and earth but like audio we dey hear am but we no dey see am. 

Here relationships are more like a friends with benefits thingy except only the girl has feelings and it’s because her marital clock is ticking. If you're searching for an Abuja Man, you will likely not find what you want so tread carefully.

Ladies tell me about your experiences with these abuja men. Dear men, defend yourselves in my comments. We dey wait.