These Days "Ignoring" is the New "No" (Must read)

                                                                

To succeed in life you have to have a plan, without planning a lot of things will go wrong beyond your control and you will be left stranded even when you thought you had more than enough, Without planning you will see that no matter how much you're earning or how much effort you think you're putting into something, you may not get the desired results you need or expect. Planning and discipline go hand in hand as well, because if you plan and you are not disciplined enough to follow it through, might as well not have a plan at all. Many people will say, what if your plan doesn't work? Well, life happens and may not give us exactly what we want but at least know what you want and plan towards it then see how it goes, either way you tried. With good enough planning and discipline, you can go far in life and as much as we all want to be independent and try to be successful, we all need somebody to take us to that next level because no man is an island, just like a rich man who has all the money and wants to build a new house, he needs someone or people to make that happen. (more after the cut)

But many of us forget this and just treat people anyhow we like, we forget that like Job, you can lose everything you've labored for overnight and be back to the bottom of the ladder and this is one of the major problems in Abuja. Too many people when they make it, either self-made or not, become different people from another planet, they forget where they came from and act like whatever they have will last forever. To get help from people in Abuja is like asking for rain in Sahara desert because it may never happen, even the ones that act like they want to help want something in return because nothing goes for nothing. Some may seem so nice and may give you little help even when you don't ask for it but the moment you ask, like air you won't see them again.

I think the new trend is ignoring people and research has shown that this is the worse way to treat anyone because they will always keep wondering why and what they did wrong. If you ask some Abuja people for help instead of them explaining to you the reasons why it’s not convenient for them to help you at the moment or maybe explain why they can't give you exactly what you want but see how they can work around what they can do for you, they would rather ignore you and that's the end of it. You will never hear from them again till we reach heaven (or hell). Ask them for as little as 2k and watch as the drift away like fly following shit stained ass. If this has happened to you then you know how painful it is for someone to treat you like an object that can be tossed away in your moment of need. In my opinion this is pure wickedness and no matter how much the person has helped you in the past, it’s going to be difficult to forgive them when they ignore you. That’s why communication is always important, if you know you can't help the person, explain it, if you can, help because one good turn deserves another and the good thing about life is that you just never know when it will come back around and put you in a tight spot. 
To all those who ignore people who ask them for help, just wait for it because karma is so real, afterall na here we still dey.