Why Being a Lady in Abuja is Hell, Part 1

Abuja is a very crazy place, if you think uve seen it all come here and see madness on another level, its like battle of the sexes. The men looking out for themselves seeing ladies as gold digging, sugar daddy hungry females, the women just want to be comfortable and live a good life but are ready to do anything and everything to look like all those IG girls.
In Abuja, as a woman, the pressure to prove that you aint a hoe is on you and the odds are not in your favor I'm sorry, the men already have this mental list of typical Abuja behaviour and when u meet them and u tick at least 2 of these behaviours,  forget it because u don't even stand a chance of being GF material 3yards. No matter how loyal you think you are or how nice you are to them,  if you do one of these, just go to Ghana and look for bf:

1. Ask them for money, within 24hrs or 3months of meeting them. In their opinion you're a money hungry whore and they will tick u bad.
2. If you refuse to give them sex on the day u meet them,  they will hate u because well, ure just a stingy bitch that doesnt want them to partake from the communion that they think every other nigga out there is getting.

3. If you as much as give their friend ur number, might as well just change ur bb display name to HOEniranu.

4. If you love clubbing just for the buzz and go every other weekend for fun they will assume its for customer ultimate search  and therefore, u will be seen as a harlot.

5. If you go with him to his house and u realize u know someone who lives in the same estate or  apartment building as him, just keep it to yourself because once you mention it, u might as well start listing how many men u've slept with.

Part 2 next week.